Thowing Light on Things that Hide in the Dark

Hi Jill, I mean it was nice how you treated me, on the phone, when I had a stroke. Compassionate and all. I really appreciate it. The money from Elephant Artist Relief was good, even though I qualified, what with credentials and all, and it is under regulatory supervision, being government grant money. Still, it felt like … Continue reading Thowing Light on Things that Hide in the Dark


The Nutmeg of Consolation

I posted things like this on dating sites, hoping to meet someone with a sense of humour. About me: Art degree with a major in gynecology. I’m not a doctor but I’m willing to have a look. About you: You have sufficient musicality to be able to hum Summertime. You can view this handy instruction … Continue reading The Nutmeg of Consolation

Eddie Bauer can do better

I speak like a Klingon at times now. The narcissist (a lot of managers are) creed, overvalue, undervalue, dump: Went into my Eddie Bauer store in Chinook Centre on the weekend for the last time it would appear. This wasn’t my choice, the manager asked me to leave. After, you know, 40 years of shopping … Continue reading Eddie Bauer can do better

Nursed by Wolfs

Imagine a nursing staff in the hospital, almost with swastikas on their uniforms, Catholic cults on their lips. This is Alberta, Canada, the home of the Canadian Conservative Party, and who kept the same party in provincial power for over 40 years. "Christian conservatives appear to care for people just before they’re born and just … Continue reading Nursed by Wolfs

Mothers Day

What is the situation that you are upset about? Answer: reflecting on my Mom and other similar abandoner's and abusers in my past relationships with women What are the unhealthy negative emotions that you are experiencing? Answer: shame embarrassment hurt anxiety depression procrastination What self-defeating behaviors would you like to change? Answer: withdrawal or avoiding social contact What … Continue reading Mothers Day

10 Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully

via 10 Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully  I read this through several times. I don't think I'm even close to done yet. Each time another aha! From my Mothers knee through to similar relationships in a lifetime. Finally, finally got it in my head its not my fault. Neither is the … Continue reading 10 Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully